Reliability means we can count on a company, organization, group or individual. In today’s world this can be difficult to maintain.
Many of us have gone through the motions of saying, “I’m here for you, you can call me anytime, my address is”….and many other lines but we fail. I firmly believe the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. All of a sudden excuses crop up and we are not answering the phone call or we had to attend a meeting and the list seems endless.
It is critical that you say what you mean and mean what you say.
Our emotional and mental domains are very fragile along with our physical and spiritual entities. There is a prolonged sense of despair when people’s words don’t match their actions. Imagine what our little ones are thinking and feeling when times are good and they hear “I love you” and then all of a sudden they are being yelled at and mistreated. Whatever the circumstance or situation, human nature is always looking for someone or something to blame.
I believe there is a way around this and maybe this will work for you if you try it. Confront and identify what is troubling you, name it. For example, you may be drinking too much or drinking and smoking weed at the same time, and you make up your mind to try and slow down on the drinking or mixing dope with the drinking and see the difference and improvement in your feelings and pattern of thinking. This is not an easy thing to say or suggest but I hope that your options and preferences begin to show you a path or pattern that gives you more feelings of empowerment and positive outlooks.
There is no one out there that can change your mind or your behaviour except you yourself. You have to make up your own mind but it is comforting to know that there are ways and opportunities in helping you make up your own mind and to help you realize there are options that work, though difficult, with people who care and understand.